Jason
All My Puny SorrowsJason is a former university acquaintance of Yolandi’s who reappears as a mechanic when she returns to see her family. Once known as Sad Jason after a breakup, he is now also navigating the end of his marriage. Their renewed connection moves from an awkward, tearful meeting at his garage to a night spent talking beside a floodway, and later to practical care when Yolandi is overwhelmed by divorce and a family medical crisis. His importance lies in that combination: he is not a rescuer who can solve her troubles, but someone who meets her distress with attention, humor, and help she can use.
Identity and Earlier Connection
Jason and Yolandi first knew each other in a CanLit class during their first year at the University of Manitoba. He borrowed her notes repeatedly and paid her with pot; his yellow corduroy trousers were part of the image she remembers from that time. The nickname Sad Jason came from the period when his girlfriend had left him and he could not concentrate. It marks him as someone whose emotional life had once been visible even in the ordinary routines of university, rather than as a stranger appearing without history.
Years later, he recognizes Yolandi from her name on the telephone. When she visits the garage, she initially sees only a man bent over her mother’s car, with thinning brown hair; then she notices his T-shirt bearing the cover of Jack Kerouac’s The Subterraneans and understands who he is. That recognition opens a sharp contrast between her younger self and the many identities she now feels she has accumulated: almost-divorced wife, adult daughter, troubled sister, and writer. Her tears arrive before she can explain them. Jason approaches awkwardly, puts his arms around her, and tries to reassure her that the immediate problem is only the car. His gesture does not answer the larger distress, but it gives it a human witness.
A Night of Conversation
Jason is himself in the process of divorcing a wife who no longer sees him romantically. He is also, in his own description, sort of dating a clown who works for the Calgary Stampede, drawing bulls away from fallen cowboys. The unexpected specificity of this detail gives his present life the same offbeat, unsettled quality as Yolandi’s: neither arrives at the reunion with a simple account of being all right.
After Yolandi tells him that she is nearly divorced, living in Toronto, and in town to see family while things are going badly, Jason proposes that they buy beer and drive out to the floodway. They hope to watch the river rise and see the northern lights, which the CBC has reported near the edge of town. Jason acknowledges that the lights will be elsewhere and that they will need to get beyond the city lights. They drive into the darkness of southeastern Manitoba, park by the floodway, and talk about the past. They try but fail to see the aurora. The evening’s value rests less on the promised spectacle than on the shared conversation: both can admit that the past takes a toll, without turning that recognition into a solution.
Romantic Connection and Creative Exchange
The reunion shifts quickly into a closeness neither had anticipated when they were students. The story presents this change alongside Yolandi’s awareness of her better instincts and her decision to go along with the evening anyway. Later, she identifies Jason as the boyfriend from the previous night. The connection is therefore not merely nostalgic: it becomes part of her unsettled present, at a moment when her marriage is ending and she is trying to understand what kind of life comes next.
Jason also enters Yolandi’s work as a reader who asks practical questions. She explains the premise of her novel: one person is stranded at sea, helpless, while another stands on shore, hurt and angry. Jason responds positively, then tests the predicament against contemporary technology, asking how the person at sea could not explain the situation by text. Yolandi says that, for some reason, the character cannot, and admits that she is struggling with the structure. Jason reassures her that it works, then offers a more forceful principle: the story should move fast and hold the reader’s attention. His advice is concrete rather than grand; it treats writing as difficult work that must keep moving. The exchange makes him a companion to her creative life as well as to her personal crisis, although his questions also expose the problem her plot must solve.
Practical Care During Crisis
When Yolandi’s divorce becomes official, the familiar defect in her car’s driver-side door turns a stressful day into a small physical obstacle she cannot overcome. She has just signed the papers and must reach the airport within twelve minutes to collect her cousin Sheila and her uncle Frank, who are arriving because their mother and wife suddenly needs heart surgery. At the garage, she slumps in the car after again failing to get out through the driver’s side. Jason comes from beneath an SUV, opens the passenger door, and lets her explain what has happened.
He rubs her back and tells her that divorce is among life’s major stressors, comparing it to a death in the family. He also makes clear that she may cry. Then he lends her a car so she can collect Sheila and Frank, promising to repair her door later that afternoon without charging her. The help is immediate and specific: it removes the transportation problem at the moment she has little time and several family demands converging. Jason cannot alter the divorce or the coming operation, but he makes it possible for Yolandi to get where she needs to go.
Narrative Role
Jason links several kinds of difficulty without becoming a symbol that erases his own circumstances. He is a mechanic, a man whose marriage is ending, a former classmate, a tentative romantic partner, and a listener to Yolandi’s writing. The story gives these roles material anchors: the damaged car, the beer by the floodway, the failed search for northern lights, and the loaner vehicle. In each setting, conversation is accompanied by an ordinary task or object rather than detached from everyday life.
His recurrence also changes the meaning of the garage. At the first meeting, it is where Yolandi’s accumulated distress breaks through and Jason offers an awkward embrace; later, it is where a mechanical failure meets a new crisis and his assistance has practical consequences. He does not promise that tomorrow will be easier, nor does the narrative make his presence a cure for grief or uncertainty. Instead, his small acts of recognition and service establish a limited but meaningful kind of care: someone notices the difficulty, stays present, and opens the passenger door.

